• spujb@lemmy.cafe
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        good thing it wasn’t (source: i was the third party recipient of those shared DMs; they were fully irrelevant to admin/mod action, abusive or otherwise)

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        since the text is too small to be readable, nobody can tell; but in any case, privacy matters regardless of the classification. If drag cared they could’ve asked Ada beforehand if it would be okay.

        But I guess courtesy is a one-way to drag.

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          Drag is sorry to Ada for sharing the screenshot of her saying she’d talk to spujb. Drag won’t do it again.

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      How so? On Lemmy, at least, they are absolutely not private. It is just a way for two users to communicate without cluttering up a thread or something. Not a way to communicate in secret.

      EDIT: Oh, I missed the joke. DM = Dick Move. Woosh

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        It’s private in the sense that the DMs were made between 2 people. They are public in the sense that the admins of the instance(s) can read the DMs. Just like admins of any server can read anything that’s not encrypted at source.

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          so… only admins can read the mail but the counterparty can’t disclose their own mail?

          wtf sort of logic does this rely on

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            No. Admins can read any mail. And everyone has access to their own mail?! And I mean everyone can disclose anything in their posession. It’s just not allowed and unethical. Though in most cases you’re allowed to publish what you wrote yourself. You just may not publish other people’s secrets or info publicly.

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              Almost everything you said isn’t true. Point to the rule that says someone can’t disclose a DM they were part of? Unethical? Sure.

              And I mean everyone can disclose anything in their posession.

              It’s just not allowed

              Make up your mind.

              Also Drag is a troll. Has suggested that several people commit suicide. Drag doesn’t get a pass. Drag is a piece of shit. Don’t be Drag.

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                Not sure where you live, and I don’t know much about US law, but for me, it’s §203 and §206 StGB. Get’s you either fined, or up to a maximum of 1 or 5 years in jail. And especially §206 is super clear and specifically mentions electronic letters. I can assure you, I’m 100% correct on that.

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                Killing it with this one…

                Also, drag didn’t feel genuine and that’s a deal breaker for me

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                  You’re a shitposter, and I’ve told you I disagree with you more often than I agree. But fuck me, Drag is verifiably a piece of shit. When you don’t, and i say this with love, have your head up your ass…I’ll have your back.

                  I’m being catty. Hoping you vibe with the teasing. Work drinks, last joke before bed. Hope I nailed it… Just like I nailed your mum!

                  OK, I’ll stop for real.

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                    When you don’t, and i say this with love, have your head up your ass…I’ll have your back.

                    I think the best I am do is 30%, take it or leave it!

                    NO MUM