• SynopsisTantilize@lemm.ee
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    7 days ago

    92 here. My boys 10 and 8 have their own machines, they are told to Google it first before I come help.

    “I’m not raising end users…get your shit together kid.”

    Love,

    SysEngineer Dad.

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      7 days ago

      fellow tech dad here. how did you strike the balance between “look up shit online” and “hiding the terrors and lies of the internet from my kids”?

      Mine’s still little, but knowing sooner is better.

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        I have the Microsoft safety shit on, and I made every site they can go to a web app. My router blocks nsfw/nonkid traffic. My phone gets notifications when they do anything at all.

        And I have extensions blocking all nsfw sites just in case. And I’ve nuked the entry for any web browser on their start menu and task bars. Can’t even scroll to find it. If you open it, it requires my admin PW, which is 14char #$@-123-ABC so good luck turds.

        Steam is locked down in kid mode - also they just play Roblox or cool math games anyways lol. Steam has browser disabled.

        Only things they have access to is Bing.com with their signed in kid account. And coolmathgames.com.

        It took about a week on and off to setup and I just did the two laptops in tandem. Windows 11.

        The family thing can be a pain, Microsoft has a lot of half baked ideas https://www.tomsguide.com/computing/how-to-set-up-parental-controls-on-a-windows-11-pc

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          Yeah, I found Microsoft family to be a pretty half-assed experience. The thing that seems to work best is the screen time management. I had planned to try and set up YouTube access via allow listing channels in a home Linux server, but it turns out that YouTube doesn’t identify their videos by channel in the URL and I’d have to allowlist every single video for a given channel.

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            6 days ago

            I’m planning on building a server that rips channels videos and they can have the app for that.

            We are a no YouTube without our explicit permission on the video kinda household. Too much actual brainrot. And as much as I don’t like Television, at least my kids are mentally protected from bullshit with the Children’s Television Protection Act.

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              I’m guessing my kids are younger than yours, but I’ve taken the approach of simply keeping a loose eye and ear on what they’re watching to make sure they’re not on too bad of content and of course limiting how much time they can spend on brainrot content. They spend most of their TV time watching PBS kids or some ripped DVDs on my Jellyfin

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                my parents did none of this. I had free rein on the internet as a wee kiddo. Granted, that was in the wild west days of the internet, but still, they did nothing. I regret it immensely.